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Last week, we shipped the kids off to my in-laws. DH and I got a bit of a chance to catch up with each other, with team building exercises like getting a several-hundred-pound bathtub out of the kids' bath and onto the curb. Oh, and there might have been a dinner and movie in there, too - my brain is a bit congested with dust resulting from the demolition of the bathroom.

Where was I?

So, on Friday, DH went off to retrieve the kids, on his own, since I am both weary of traveling and wary of sleeping arrangements at my in-laws'. I had the whole weekend to myself! In which I discovered that single, childless people have oodles of free time. I cleaned up my side of the bedroom, went grocery shopping, watched a couple of movies, worked on my paper some, hung out with a friend, and still had lots of time to play stupid computer games. I mean, I knew that having kids meant I had a lot less free time, but geez!

The family returned Sunday evening, and suddenly I felt overburdened all over again. Back to the daily grind. I love my kids and husband, and I have no regrets about getting married and having children early, but those couple days reminded me of some of what I've been missing.

Date: 2007-08-07 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] remcat.livejournal.com
You speak my language!!

I never know what to say to people who "just" work when they say they have no time.

Date: 2007-08-07 01:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] astra-nomer.livejournal.com
Heh. You must also agree that "having children will change your life" is a huge understatement. :)

Date: 2007-08-07 04:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] remcat.livejournal.com
Yes, very much so. I have told more than one couple (who were contemplating childern) that it is literally impossible to be completely "ready."

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